Anonymous
Absolutely!! Force yourself to exerscise and trust me it will benefit. When I’m upset or just feeling down; I do crunches. Don’t force yourself too much, but pressure can be a good thing!
Anonymous
Communicate with her. If you guys understand each other, you won’t fight as much. Communicating is the best way to help.
Anonymous
Ask someone else out! I bet you’re absolutely beautiful and he shouldn’t have used you like that. He wasn’t worth it.
Anonymous
Keep telling him until he finally answers. Tell him that you’re not happy that he’s getting flirty with your best friend and if he doesn’t stop, I say break up with him.
Anonymous
Stop her in the halls and ask her what’s wrong. She could be mad at you for a rumor going around that isn’t true. Maybe think back and see if you said something wrong.
Anonymous
I don’t think there’s really much you can do. Your friend doesn’t sound like she’s really your friend, she knows how much you like your boyfriend, and if she felt that way about him surely she would ask you about it first and talk to YOU first. The fact that she didn’t do that is out of order and maybe you should calmly and lovelyly talk to her about that. Just because she used to go out with your boyfriend doesn’t give her the right to do that :P Your boyfriend on the other hand: I feel that this is like a test of how much he likes you; he could either betray you and cheat on you or something or be loyal to you. If he’s loyal to you then you know he’s worth staying with and all you need to do then is be a good friend to your friend who would probably be kinda upset. If he likes her then you know he wasn’t good enough for you anyway :/ I think you really need to talk to your friend about why she likes him and why she’s upset and why she didn’t talk to you first.. and then talk to your boyfriend about how he feels on this situation. Try to stay calm and not get upset. Remember, you deserve the best and none of this was your fault. I love you.
Anonymous
I know how you feel. I really do. You need to take it slow. Break up the reasons why you want to. Think to yourself. Should I really? Try and remember what made you this way. You can make it. I promise. Do it for me.
Anonymous
you can’t force these things to happen. it honestly sounds like you want to be more than friends- wich is perfectly fine. but you have to step back and think “is this guy really worth it?”. once you ask that question; you can move on to the next step of your relationship with him
Anonymous
first confront the friend. see what her situation with this guy is. if it’s serious then you shouldn’t waste your time on this boy. but if you truely genuely like this kid, and he’s actually worth your time, then go for it
Anonymous
This is a hard one. Okay, if you believe he might take advantage of you, don’t do it. If he tells you that you should go out and drink for a little, don’t do it because he might be trying to get into your pants lol. If it seems he doesn’t want to take advantage, go for it :)
